If you arrived at your front door and saw your first love standing there, what would you do or say?
It would depend upon whether the asker meant first love or first crush.
For first love, it would be easy: "Hi, Andy, let me help you with some of those things you're carrying."
First crush would be more bittersweet, since he died last year. I think the first thing I would do would be to hug him. And while they might not be the first words to pop out of my mouth, at some point I would ask "How did it happen?"